The new year has always been something I’ve always looked forward to. The madness dies down a bit and you can tuck yourself in at home and reflect on what has been in the previous year. It’s a time to work out where you want to go. I sit at my desk and doodle. Some might call it a mind map but mine really is a doodle of what I want for the following year. It’s full of me.
I’ve always been told I think deeply, and too much but, isn’t that what one should do if they want to grow? Personal growth. Who knows how long we have so make the most of it I say. What’s wrong in having a plan? I like plans. They’re like a road map to stop us getting lost. I’m easily distracted. If I could use an emoji here it would be the one of the person covering their face or in my case giving myself a face splat! Here it is anyway… 🤦🏻♀️
New year is not easy for many. I’ve family members who hate it. I don’t quite understand why. Is there a sense of loss of what has been, or is there guilt of not having done what one should have? My last year was of losing a good artist friend. I can’t comprehend it. I’d seem her ten days before. Then I only learned about it a few days after by chance. The year of 2025 did bring many things and not quite how I’d planned. Another lesson learned that not all is perfect and neither can I control it.
I think each year for me brings hope. At this tender age of 55 I’ve learned that whoever I am is me! I’ve learned to connect with my real people and let those go who are not for me. Always trying to fit in, and do the ‘normal’ things are what I’ve let go of.
So in 2026 go forth and be yourself. As long as you’re harming no one, be yourself. Life is short and we’re blessed to have it. Even in these times that we are struggling, financially, and with this world that is suffering. There is space to see the little glimmers of hope and kindness around us. A little smile will carry you forward onto whatever 2026 brings.
By Husna Hussain